Contributed by Bobby Rio, Co-creator of Make Small Talk Sexy.

003_1If you ever had a girl seem completely into you and then go cold all of a sudden, you got played. The game girls play is how much attention can I get this guy to give me. Its like a drug for some chicks.

They love the fact they can get some guy to stand around entertaining them for 2 hours and just when he thinks hes gonna get some they bolt and never ever return his phone calls.

This doesnt make them evil bitches like some guys like to refer them as, but it is reality and youve got to be aware that it exists.

And if you want to actually meet girls that are going to answer your calls, meet you for drinks, and go back to your place for additional fun then youve got to quickly differentiate yourself from the dozens of other fans of hers.

I call these guys fans because they act like shes the celebrity and theyve got to do everything they can to make sure she doesnt get bored and leave.

But, let me ask you something, do celebrities ever really want to hang out with their fans? Sure, the admiration is probably fun for a bit but then they want to get back to their real friends who treat them like human beings and dont worship their every move.

Women are the same, once they sense your admiration a switch goes off and theyre interest MASSIVELY dwindles. So how do you not only keep their interest but reverse their game on them and grip their attention to the point they cant stop thinking about you?

There are two main things you need to do:

1. Concentrate on showing YOURSELF the best possible time. Stop worrying about entertaining her and do whatever it takes for you to completely enjoy cracking yourself up.

Doing this, quickly wakes a girl up to the fact that youre not her fan and arent dead set on entertaining her and keeping her around.

2. Get her to invest into the conversation. You see, the reason its so easy for most women to ditch a guy is because she put absolutely no work into talking to him.

However, when you get her opening up and telling you things about herself and youre making judgements about her, her ego is much more on the line.

Hot girls know guys will never turn them down because of her looks but they all get a bit insecure that when a guy gets to know them she wont be able to keep his interest.

Deep down inside, women have the same old insecurities and fears as guys do and part of the reason they love the attention game is because it relieves some of their anxiety.

As long as they have fans out there, they MUST be desirable.

But once you flip that switch in her mind, you can ignite her desire to chase you and keep chasing you. There is one caveat to making this work.

YOU. You must have the thought processes NAILED DOWN.


Because she is going to TEST you. Shes going to test to see if youre for real and you better pass her test if you want to maintain the upper hand. The easiest way to do this is to change the way you think.

In my brand new training I lay out the exact thought processes that allow players to continually wrap women around their fingers.

When you begin thinking like a player you begin making the right decision naturally. But if you dont understand the way a player thinks youre going to keep giving your hand away to the woman too early.


P.S. Be careful with this stuff. Playing hot and cold with a woman really is like a drug. And you can get a girl obsessed with you pretty easily. So make sure youre only using this stuff on girls you are really interested in.