Ive heard this tragic story far too many times…. You can feel this excruciating moment coming on from a mile away. The conversation with this cute girl started off great. Shes smiling, laughing, clearly becoming more interested and more attracted as you continue.
Call it a brain fart, a blank mind, a loss for words. The only thing that matters is, it brings the conversation to a complete halt and you can feel her attraction levels for you dropping faster than a drunk girl in stilettos.
So what can you do to pull the conversational nose-dive back into the high flying interaction it was? You dig into your toolbox. Your social toolbox, that is.
Ill share with you my absolute favorite conversation-saving tool.
This is a guaranteed way to save any conversation with a girl, PLUS its so perfectly constructed, that it easily allows for sexual innuendo to get her mind in the right place while still being in the context of pure, NON-NEEDY and FUN banter.
Its a little game I like to call FMK and it will be your new best friend.
When you deploy the FMK game, any drooping conversation will instantly be turned around. You will leap beyond the average lame guys who approach her with the same old boring pickup lines and dull conversations.
So it goes like this:
When you start to run out of things to say, just as you can feel that her attraction is about to start dipping down…You turn to her, and you say:
Hey, lets play a game real quick.
Watch as her eyes sparkle with curiosity. This is a departure from the normal night-time drivel shes used to dealing with. She will almost certainly invite you to proceed. Continue to the game. Start to glance around the room, assessing the other guys you see and start to point them out one by one, and asking her ok, so would you fuck, marry or kill him?
Shell laugh at first. Then shell look over at your target and size him up. Choose different types of guys representing the spectrum of personality types and behaviors. A jock. A douchebag. A nerd. A handsome debonair type. A bad-boy rocker. A business guy.
This will do a few things:
1) You will get an insight into what she values in a man, and how she operates. She will give very direct clues to how she wants to be seduced. If she says fuck to the rocker dude, marry to the nerdy guy, and kill to the guy in a suit…then you can guess that shes got a wild side, she doesnt like guys with a lot of structure, and shes a secret nerd.
Think about it, shell basically be giving you a HUGE hint into how to seduce her. If you know the 4 things that every girl needs to know before she thinks about sleeping with a guy, it will pretty much be a deal-closer.
More on that in a few…
2) You can continue bantering and teasing her. This is so crucial to the first stage of the interaction. Keep conversation light, non-needy (teasing her playfully) and fun! Make fun and silly projections about who you guess shed fuck, marry and kill.
It will be remarkably easy as shes alternating between giggling at her own quirky tastes, cringing at the dopey guys, and switching to her ooh la la voice with the guys that turn her on.
3) Which brings me to my next point…SHE WILL GET TURNED ON.
Remember, you are asking her to bring the thought who do I want to fuck? into her mind, and all in the context of an experience that was generated by and shared with you, and only you.
4) Finally, she will see that you are 100% confident in your sexuality and your ability to attract women. You can confidently discuss the theoretical thought of her sleeping with other men, and that doesnt threaten you.
99.99% of dudes would be terrified to even suggest that she even look at another guy when hes talking to her!
Your confidence here will be very, very sexy to women. After playing this game for even a few minutes, she will be extremely turned on by your creativity, your playfulness, and your confidence.
This sets you up PERFECTLY to transition into the next stage of interaction, build upon the sexual energy in this game, especially if youve been properly mixing in the right sexual triggers that all women have.
This is part of the 4 things that every girl needs to decide to sleep with a guy.
If you havent learned about the sexual triggers yet, stop everything and watch this presentation (this shit will change how you attract women forever!) Learn how to activate secret sexual triggers < Get her instantly turned on.